Bennett told me in our interview, "Don't use a boring or standard opening message.
Online dating is very competitive, and some people have anywhere from hundreds to even thousands of likes, matches, and messages to sort through.
Krimer told me, "Check in with yourself before you get out into the dating world or whilst dating." Krimer suggested that you ask yourself the following questions: "What is it that might be affecting/might affect your dating experience? If you put too much pressure on the expectation of meeting someone, you're much more likely to feel disappointed or discouraged if it's not what you expect it to be." I've seen many friends let their longterm goals go out the window when they meet someone they really like, but who may not be a great long term match.
Krimer suggested that you keep your goals front and center.
Bennett suggested, "Give personality more weight, and swipe left on guys and gals you know wouldn't be good for you, even if they're hot. If you experience difficulty in any of these areas, consider the fact that they may affect the outcome of your dating experiences.
Bennett told me, "Different apps have different strengths and weaknesses.