If they’re out and single, women scan the room for potential guys. New rule: “I will assume that any woman who makes eye contact and smiles at me is open to conversation.So when a woman looks at you and smiles, she’s not just being polite. I’ll introduce myself to her.” Many guys don’t realize how easy it can be to get a girl’s number.By swiping yes to each other, you both already accept you find each other attractive.A couple of short messages and an invitation to do something is all you need.Delaying your responses for hours or days does not make you more attractive. New rule: “I will respond within 4 hours of getting a text from a girl.” Having a new girl respond over text feels great.You’re actually being MORE NEEDY by faking disinterest just to get someone to like you. And sometimes, you just want to hold onto that wonderful feeling.“I only talked to her for a couple minutes at the gym after her set.” “This girl at the bar was talking to me while getting a drink, but it was just for a few minutes.” “I met a girl at this event but we didn’t get past small talk.” A woman knows whether or not she’d give you her number within minutes of meeting you.
New rule: “I will suggest meeting up with a girl within our first or second text exchange.” A lot of guys think they need to a woman to meet up with them from online dating.
If a woman responds to you, she’s deciding that you are a potential mate.
You only need to convey one thing: that meeting up will be a fun, easy going experience.
You get a girl’s number and then do nothing with it! I also know you’re afraid of getting a response because that means you have to take the next steps. It took you longer to come up with that excuse than to send a one-sentence text to her.
So sometimes it’s easier to not reach out and make excuses. And I know you didn’t magically forget, you’ve been thinking about this decision repeatedly.Then we’ll create new rules that you must follow regardless of your doubt or fears.