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How do we incorporate the Indian movie ideal of romance in America?
Inlove stories you hit the jackpot the first time around.
Most first generation Indian-Americans have parents who experienced the Indian version of a love story, whether it was an arranged marriage or a cute love story, most of our parents haven’t exactly dated other people.
Not only does our culture look down upon the concept of dating, but most Indians focus on the end goal and not the journey.
Commitment is an expectation in India and a privilege in America.
Male Dominated Society Any woman who is considering dating an Indian man should understand right up front that there is no equality between the sexes in India.