First, he will go to Nebraska to visit his family and then he will come and see me in Kentucky. Their travel arrangements are made and paid for by the government. Claiming to be deployed for three years is a play for your pity. These people know you and they are not blinded by love.I’m supposed to pay ,500 in fees to his unit so they can release him, and he will give me the money when he comes home and goes to his bank, Wells Fargo. Sincerely, Please Tell Me I Am Not Being Scammed ***** Each of these letters has a clue that shows the correspondent is a military romance scammer, not an actual service member. They know if someone asks you for money, it is a scam. If you think this person you are talking to online isn’t for real, you are probably right.He responded that he would rather forget about the phone than to lose me. His commander contacted me and said he still needs ,000 before he can be released. He has been through so much on these deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan.It’s so unfair that the military would put all of these restrictions on them before releasing them.They have even been known to telephone their victims as a first introduction. Investigators say there could be more victims that have not been identified.He needs to relax and enjoy himself instead of going from one war to the next. What can I do to draw attention to my soldier’s situation? Sincerely, Stuck in a Serious Situation ***** Dear Ms.
My best friend is a lawyer and he tells me about cases where men sent money to women under false pretences.I hadn’t heard from him for over three weeks, and I was so worried. Lots of military members do use dating sites to meet people in their community. They pay bills online, buy items from websites and even arrange for car loans. Service members do not have to pay for internet connections, food or travel expenses etc. Even if a service member misses a connecting flight, the military takes care of this. Liars love to claim they are in Delta Force, Army Rangers, Navy Seals or Special Ops. Military members can be sent on an unaccompanied tour for a year or two.