7) The sex part is tricky: It is very easy for a girl to fake orgasm, or at least pleasure.Also, it won't be difficult for her to make you believe she is attracted to you physically and that she enjoys having sex.Clearly, I understand the concept of privacy, but such behaviour is a clear indicator that your Indonesian girl is hiding something. If you believe that, then you can ask her about the previous men she was dating.I remember my ex was very confuse about it: She was telling me about her Dutch guy with whom she had been for 3 years, her American guy she had dated for 2 and a half year, her German guy that she had loved for 4 years, etc.I don't think you should put to much emphasis on it, but still, if you have the feeling that for her . You feel that your Indonesian girl is not being faithful, for tons of reasons that adds up.
You feel you are giving her all the time but you don't get anything in return except sex once in a while (if she sees you're angry).Don't expect a girl who did that kind of cheating to be nicer with you! The reason for that is simple: It's hard to be deceptive, and when someone's life is a lie, he cannot always find good excuses for everything.She cannot keep track of all the lies she is saying because it is not possible for a normal human being. 5) Another sign that can help you see if the girl you are dating is having multiple boyfriends: She that make her mad/sad/depressed.She will tell you that you are different, because your love is so special, etc..
Be smart and ask yourself if this is the kind of world you want to live in.Normal girls don't lie because they don't have to and if you indo girlfriend is lying to you; it means that she is not behaving normally. Usually, she will say she has "problems at home", but don't take her word too seriously: Chances are she is angry because one of the expats she is dating stopped sending her money, or because she fought with her Indonesian guy.